Over the last decade or so I have helped countless managers in various industries at various levels add people to their team. In that time, as you can imagine, I have experienced many different hiring styles and interviewing styles.
One thing is for sure, not all hiring styles are created evenly.
Some hiring managers are amazing to work with and make partnering with them a real treat. On the flip side, some hiring managers can’t help but get in their own way and make even the simplest of tasks seem laborious.
In this post, I want to separate the good from the bad. The effective from the ineffective. Believe or not, there are definitely patterns. There are things great hiring managers do and then there are things that great hiring managers won’t do.
And while everyone has their own style, there are things that happen too often to be a coincidence.
For the purpose of this blog, I am going to focus on only things a hiring manager can control in the moment. I will spare you the “working for a fortune 500 company” or a company with a phenomenal reputation in the market. While that is a choice a hiring manager may be able to make or in the latter instance impact over time, you can’t snap your fingers and make that happen.
Fortunately, the traits and behaviors that I have isolated really can be done by anyone willing to do them. Now, some of them take some time and may even take a bit of an ideological change from a management perspective, but they are doable.
I feel I have set the table enough, let’s jump into the practices and then we can get together again after for a summary!
See the partnership as an actual partnership
You wouldn’t go to the doctor if you didn’t value their input, opinion and when it was doable, take their advice. Right?
But how many managers partner with a recruiter but brush off their information in favor of everything they have “learned over the years”? The answer, the ones who I am not writing this blog post about. Frankly, more than there should. And likely enough so that any recruiters reading this just said “amen” under their breath.
The problem with what hiring managers have “learned over the years” is that the information they have is changing. Hiring practices from five years ago and much less effective today. The market changes, the economy changes and the talent you are pursuing also experiences change.
If you want to be truly effective as a hiring manager, you leverage the knowledge of someone who is out in the market, living it every day.
I have had hiring managers who have hired a person a year on average discount my opinion when in that year I had helped hire fifty.
The bottom line is nobody wins if you can’t cooperate and work as a team. The communication is better, both parties are more open to sharing information in a timely manner and it’s altogether more pleasant.
The bottom line here is everyone benefits when both parties check their egos at the door and work together to accomplish the end goal. Great hiring managers know this and do this.
Love selling the opportunity to the candidates
If you go into an interview thinking that the candidate needs to sell you on their ability to contribute but you owe them nothing, be prepared to be disappointed. A lot.
Candidates have options, very view companies can afford to hire great people and also be the worst option a candidate has. This one is so easy it is almost hard to elaborate further. But it is so important I can’t gloss over it either.
Great managers know that hiring the best people is always in their best interest. They know the best people have options. And they also know that if you can be the best option, you stand to have a better chance of getting those great candidates to join you.
So, get the information you need from them but don’t let candidates walk out that door without them knowing that what you have to offer is superior to what they can receive elsewhere.
How do you know what matters to them? You ask. You ask them.
Find out what they like about their current job, what they would change about it with a magic wand, what their “why” is etc.
Get that information, and where you know you can offer them more then what they are getting in whatever regard you discover, let them know. Sell your organization in a way that will be meaningful to them and you will find yourself more successful than not.
They care about their people
This one isn’t the fastest to achieve but it is absolutely worth it.
Have you ever sat in an interview with a manager and the members of the manager’s team? What do you notice? Well if you are perceptive, you will notice that the people either feel heard and valued or they don’t.
How do they look at their manager? Are they afforded to opportunity to answer questions? When you ask them questions, do they answer in a way that leads you to believe they are happy with their situation? This stuff matters.
Look, if you don’t care about your people you have no business sitting in that chair across from a new person to manage anyway. You just don’t. But, if you insist, then learn to care about your people. Just like you, they have worked hard to get to where they are and just like the candidate you hope to hire, they have options. Be worthy of them deciding to stay with you.
They seek feedback when they fail
There are two ways you can take the unfortunate news that your favorite candidate has decided to withdraw from the process. You can look at it and go “well if they wanted to drop out, then they weren’t right for this opportunity anyway.”
Or, you have the hiring managers I am referencing in this blog that says “why did they decide to drop out and what can we do better next time?”
Now, what they do with that, I am not sure. I would assume they incorporate that to some degree into their process if they find the info valuable.
But I will tell you this, those questions are consistent. The great hiring managers I work with want to know the why. They are inquisitive. They don’t like losing great candidates and they sure you don’t like losing great candidates for the same reason twice.
Understand they can’t win them all and are at peace
A great hiring manager is passing out blame when things go wrong. They don’t blame the company, the process, the recruiter or anything else for that matter. Great hiring managers aren’t blaming people because they are too busy trying to figure out what they can do better.
They also do their best and are at peace with the outcome. The reality is life allows you to control only so much, and there are things that you won’t ever be able to control. You have to put yourself in the best possible position and be at peace with whatever happens.
I have seen great hiring managers love a candidate, extend an offer to that candidate just to have that candidate say no after getting everything they requested. Consistently, great hiring managers understand that hand is just part of the game and ask to be dealt in again.
If you do your best work, control everything you can control, there is no point in playing the pity game or lashing out. Get back in there. That candidate may have been a Rockstar, but the good news for all of us is that they aren’t the only one.
Conclusion
Most people aren’t born great at everything they do. Behaviors and skills are learned. Anyone who wants to do the things above can do them. They aren’t magic. Some are more time consuming than others but regardless of the investment, all of these will help you win when it comes to securing talent and building amazing teams.
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